I’m in the business of learning
more about the natural inclinations of Most women AND Most men with regards to their behavioral psychology in and around relationships. I have many, many conversations about this subject with men I know personally- as well as with
strangers- from various socioeconomic backgrounds,
living and working within a multitude of income levels and a host of
professions; including the unemployed. There is no shame in my thang! I’ll ask
a brotha in the street why he just looked at a Sista’s booty as she walked
away. I’ll question what prompts those seemingly
instinctive behaviors, such as the immediate turning of the head and fixing of
the eyes in a downward direction at an angle ranging between 75 and 45 degrees from
ground to “standard” eye level, all in order to catch a glimpse of a woman’s
booty as she knowingly or unknowingly passes by. I want to know what he noticed
about her, first; what his booty-looking criteria are; and, what his thoughts
were as his eyes gazed penetratingly at her bum. Was he aroused in those
moments he stared? Was he envisioning a future with her as he watched? Further, had he
even thought about his own thinking in that situation before? There is much to learn from the dialogue
this line of questioning yields. So, I probe! I want to be in-the-know, in
part, so I can share that information with you. I Love You. I encourage you to
grow.
Showing posts with label commitment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label commitment. Show all posts
Thursday, December 15, 2011
9 Things Women REALLY Should Know About Men: + 1 MORE to Grow On!
I’m in the business of learning
more about the natural inclinations of Most women AND Most men with regards to their behavioral psychology in and around relationships. I have many, many conversations about this subject with men I know personally- as well as with
strangers- from various socioeconomic backgrounds,
living and working within a multitude of income levels and a host of
professions; including the unemployed. There is no shame in my thang! I’ll ask
a brotha in the street why he just looked at a Sista’s booty as she walked
away. I’ll question what prompts those seemingly
instinctive behaviors, such as the immediate turning of the head and fixing of
the eyes in a downward direction at an angle ranging between 75 and 45 degrees from
ground to “standard” eye level, all in order to catch a glimpse of a woman’s
booty as she knowingly or unknowingly passes by. I want to know what he noticed
about her, first; what his booty-looking criteria are; and, what his thoughts
were as his eyes gazed penetratingly at her bum. Was he aroused in those
moments he stared? Was he envisioning a future with her as he watched? Further, had he
even thought about his own thinking in that situation before? There is much to learn from the dialogue
this line of questioning yields. So, I probe! I want to be in-the-know, in
part, so I can share that information with you. I Love You. I encourage you to
grow.
Monday, April 18, 2011
CAN WE TALK??? Really?
In the words of Comedienne Joan Rivers,
Ok. BROTHAS.. Many of you claim YOU WOULD LOVE TO BE ABLE TO TELL HER how you're really feeling; share some of your innermost desires. You say you just wish you could talk to her openly, honestly, without judgment or fear of repercussions from her. You really want her to just listen. Isn't that true?
And, SISTAS.. Most of us say WE WISH HE WOULD TALK TO US MORE
about how he really feels; share his innermost desires with us. We say we just want him to feel comfortable enough to discuss anything with us, no matter what it is. We want him to stop lying to us simply because he thinks we can't handle the truth. Right?
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